I had a frustrating afternoon yesterday to say the least. I wanted nothing more for the evening than to snuggle up with Master and, if he was willing, a good flogging. Well, he was willing, but our bodies weren't, because we both started dozing off on the couch shortly after dinner. So we got up, went to bed, and to my delight last night was the return of two of our prior bed time rituals. That helped me to feel more grounded even though I didn't get the "play" I was hoping for. One ritual was the rope/cuff that attaches my ankle to the bedpost. It's got a long enough length I can make it to the bathroom without having to wake Master up to get un-attached. The other was the return of my locking collar for sleep time. Generally in the past Master would put this collar on me as soon as we were done going out and about, but on days when that just didn't happen due to being busy, it used to always go on at bed time if nothing else. My heart is gladdened by the return of these two rituals. I know that D/s is not about all the "trappings" and "window dressings" but good tangible things like these really help me to center myself on who I am and my place in our relationship.
(Edited to fix typos! Wow you can tell I wrote this early in the morning!)
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I am truly glad that the return of the rope and steel collar have provided my bestest girl with such a comforting foundation. *hugs*
Don't worry, you'll get that flogging. ;-)
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